As a sugar dater of sugar baby, you finally find the sugar daddy you love through endless attempts on sugar daddy dating sites like SugarDaddyMeet. Everything is fine with your sugar daddy, and chemistry is strong. Then one day, he doesn't text you for 24 hours. What does it mean to be a sugar daddy and ignore you like that?
Did you do something wrong? Doesn't he really like you? In human history, being ignored has always felt bad. Especially now, when a sugar daddy ignores you, you know he's read a dozen of your messages, but he doesn't respond. You think it's common courtesy to reply to a text, even if he doesn't like you. But is it true? Doesn't he like you? Is he playing a game? Did he go out with the other sugar babies? What does it mean to be a sugar daddy and ignore you? Don't worry, now I'm going to help you figure out what he's thinking when he ignores you, and what you should do.
1. Because it's over Dating isn't as straightforward as it used to be, and most people are afraid to express their true feelings directly or break up as frankly as they used to. For most people, ignoring a text or phone call, or blocking someone on a dating app, means breaking up, rather than saying: you know what? There's no chemistry between you and me. I still want to be your friend if you like. How hard is that? However, if you find that your sugar daddy is ignoring you, chances are he's telling you he wants it over.
What should you do if he ignores you like this? If you find that he ignores you because he wants to end it, then take it as your blessing. You don't want to waste time with a sugar daddy who isn't emotionally mature enough to be honest with you about how he feels. Also, if you don't like a sugar daddy, have the courage to tell him that you don't think he's right for you, so he can save more time to find the right person. I really believe dating is karma, so do it the way you want your date to!
2. Not sure about you You may know exactly how you feel about this sugar daddy, but he's not sure yet, especially if he's not ready for a sugar relationship, and you seem to want one. When he ignores you, don't assume it's over. He may just need some time to deal with where he is and what he wants. Maybe he was out before he met you, and he was just happy you hooked up, that's all. And then you show up, and you're so sexy and confident that all of a sudden he's not sure if all he wants is to stay casual. So he disappeared, and he needed time to think it over.
What should you do if he ignores you like this? This is not a bad result, but it proves that he is interested in you, he just wants to think things through, which is good for everyone. That means he's thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with you, which is probably what you want, right? Give him time and space to work things out. When he's ready, he'll come back and/or be willing to talk about where things are going. Let him steer.
3. Slow things down When you meet a sugar daddy you like, you may want to move quickly and see what happens, but if things start moving too fast, he may panic and pull away. While not everyone does this, some people are happy to act quickly when they think it's right. So when he ignores you because things are moving too fast, it's probably because he's emotionally immature. He may feel unable to talk to you about his fears about the relationship, so he starts to fade away. Or allow yourself to slowly accept the way things are going.
What should you do if he ignores you like this? When he ignores you because things are moving too fast, realize there's no need to rush. He just needs time to slow down. If it takes him a week or two to figure out what he wants out of all this, you should do the same thing: slow down so you have time to catch your breath and figure things out. Only by thinking clearly about each other can mistakes be avoided.
For you, there is room to understand whether you are just infatuated or whether the relationship has real potential, and he needs time to judge. On the other hand, if you give him a few weeks to think about it and he ignores you as a chronic problem, it's time to talk to him about what's going on. He may see no future in the relationship, but is reluctant to end it. Or he may ignore you for some reason. Whatever happens to the sugar daddy, remember that the slower the better. Take the time to get to know each other and wait until you get out of the honeymoon and know how you really feel about him before you start talking about the future.
4. Play a game I know. You don't like your sugar daddy playing games on dates. But now, your sugar daddy may be ignoring you because of the game. Sad but true: the person you like may take hours to respond to your text messages because he's playing a game. However, some men take "ignore her and she'll want you" a little too far. If he's carefully planning how long he'll have to wait to respond to you, he's definitely playing a game trying to get you to chase him. If you think he's doing it, don't give in.
What should you do if he ignores you like this? I suggest you don't chase him, because when you chase him, he wins. If this guy thinks to get your heart, he has to mess with your head before he plays hard-to-get, he's barking up the wrong tree. You really don't want a sugar daddy. If you text him and he doesn't respond, you have two options: play the game again and take twice as long to reply. Or move on. If he was playing games early in the relationship, he might not suddenly become real after a few months.
Do you know now? There are many possible reasons for a sugar daddy to ignore you. You must make the situation clear before you make any decision. Give him a few days in case he needs some space. If it gets to the point where you can't stand it, nothing good will come of his ignoring you. If he needs time to think about what he wants, he'll tell you. If he's a coward and can't honestly admit it's over, it's time to move on.